Roger Chatell:  

CLASS OF 1991
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West warwick, RI
Sacred Heart SchoolClass of 2007
Taftville, CT
West warwick, RI
Warwick, RI
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Roger's Story

Life "Move!" A loud voice would boom as I talked to my friend Bob Gwaizdon at his locker while I stood in front of Cheryl Grenon's locker. At West Warwick High School at age 17, this girl I worked with at d'Angelo's wanted to get into her locker, that I often obstructed while I chatted with Bob. One night after a long shift at work, my co-worker said she was not looking forward to going home. Even though we did not really care too much for one another, I suggested that she go with me to the movies. I was going to see the new Star Trek movie one way or another, she might as well join me. Surprisingly, she accepted. She would later confess that she saw a side of me that night she had never seen before. I was really just being myself. I never thought of dating Cheryl, I was just going to see Star Trek. A couple of months later, she unexpectedly asked me to her prom. Now I had just quit that school, I was not looking forward to seeing everyone again after dropping out, plus why spend the cash, so I declined. But for the first time, the idea was in my head that there could be something here between Cheryl and me? I bought a couple of things that month. A sweet 16 necklace charm for a girl I had been chasing for years, and two concert tickets. I gave the charm to the other girl, and decided that I could not unsuccessfully try to go out with her any longer. After the prom, Cheryl did not have a good time, for which I was thankful! I asked her to the concert on June 1, 1991, the night after her prom, and she accepted. The next day our co-workers were all abuzz and wondering why we did not speak to one another that day, and wondered if we were "going out". On the night of the third, we spoke at length on the phone, and I did get the nerve to ask her out, "So does this mean we are going out?" We had our ups and downs over the years, but on September 30, 1995, I proposed to her outside of my cousin's wedding reception. I was down on one knee by the water, the moon was out, we were all alone... very nice. She says she knew I was carrying a rock, but I am still not sure I believe that. We planned a long engagement, to save enough money, which is impossible by the way. In 1997, we moved in together with her brother, and soon got a place of our own. We were married on June 27, 1998 at St. John the Baptist Church, our parish. Unlike other grooms, I planned almost every aspect of our wedding, the control freak that I am. Our son Richard Armand Chatell was born on May 8, 2000, a very happy occassion. He was named for her father and me, and was baptized in the same garment I wore to my baptism in the same church. Ricky lived a spoiled life as an only child, like his father. But fortunately for him, he was joined by his brother Jason Joseph Chatell on November 25, 2002. Jay is named after his uncles Chris and Joe, the latter of which is his godfather. In 2005, I accepted a promotion to Connecticut, and we sold our home in West Warwick, a town I had always resided in, and relocated to Norwich, CT. We are very happy in this new community, and the new house is awesome! Cheryl and I have been dating for over 14 years. Only now here in Norwich have I been happy to take her advice, and "move". School I attended Msgr. Vincent School in West Warwick, RI, from 1978-1987. Honestly, in all my education, those years were the best! I was in the 99th graduating class, and our distinction was that we went to Montréal for our class trip, unlike classes prior to and after ours. Our drunk chaporones and poker games with the young attractive tour guide saw to that I suppose! Oops! I think back to the balloon days, the morning announcements on the crummy sound system, pretending to pay a quarter for a bag of chips at lunch, the sound of squeaking sneakers in the hallway after Miss Rita's gym class... I can still hear it. I remember the "butt corner", where all of the 13-year-old smokers would go to avoid being seen by Sr. Diane... no names to protect the guilty! My most inspirational teacher was Sr. Paulette Lefebvre, though we never had her for homeroom. Man, I wish I could talk with her! I still have my yearbooks, signed by everyone. If anyone has a 1986-87 yearbook, I would pay for it xeroxed! My best friends back then were Dave Marchessault, Phil Lefebvre, Pat Hynes, Scott Nunes, Jonathan Turenne, Tom Purvis, and Bob Gwaizdon. I have lost touch with Dave, Pat, Jon, and Tom. Although Phil was an usher in my wedding, our lives have travelled divergent paths. Bob and I, however, are still good friends... he put a deck on my old house in Arctic! I think back to everyone at Msgr. Vincent School, if you are reading this, contact me at chatell-at-juno.com... I'd love to chat with you! In 2004-05 my older son Richard attended Pre-K at Christ the Redeemer Academy, the modern-day successor to St. John the Baptist School, in the same building. Everything seems a little smaller as parent. I was so proud of him going to the same school that I did. In his class, he was friends with Tim Pimental's son, and Scott Nunes' step-son. It was real nice to be reunited as fathers in our school that meant so much to me. Unfortunately, my job relocated my family to Connecticut, so Ricky was there only for that one year. But I was a little involved on the PTC, helping out whenever I could. From 1987-1990, I was a hawk at Bishop Hendricken High School in Warwick, RI. Although in marching band in my freshman year, I did not utilize the great opportunities laid before me at Hendricken. I couldn't read music to save my life! From a lower middle class single parent family, I was so unprepared to compete with my peers at Hendricken. I did learn alot there though. When I think back to high school, I am very proud to have attended Hendricken for the three years. Unfortunately, I quit Hendricken in spring 1990, and started at West Warwick High School that autumn. Although not always on friendly terms, it was here that my future wife and I began to get to know one another. I was not happy in public school at all. All I wanted to do was get to college. After quitting school a second time, I tried again in the fall of 1991, having started dating Cheryl Grenon that summer. Although the relationship did, the schooling did not last long, as I quit school a whopping third time in order to earn a GED, which I aced, of course! I was onto the Community College of Rhode Island... or as we called it so long ago as our Hendricken bus yelled obscenities at the guy protesting the junior college, "the 13th and 14th grades of Rhode Island." Yeah! College Having sufficently screwed up my high school career, one opportunity was left for college... CCRI in Warwick, RI. From 1992-1995, I c...Expand for more
ompleted my Associate of Arts degree in Social Work. It was rewading, because it sort of nullified my embarassing GED. Classes were great, much more relaxed than high school, which I hated, and I could be expressive. Why social work? Well, funny story... at the time I wanted to work for the Boy Scouts of America, and you need a college degree to do that. So I looked over the catolag like a menu, trying to select a major. Having never been involved with or exposed to any type of therapy, I did not know what Social Work was. Honestly, I thought it was some sort of recreational activity work... like running dances, playgrounds, community events... not so! But I learned to like the profession, and I did just fine! I interned for the Scouts, then for the YMCA, then really got the good one, Probation and Parole at the Kent County Courthouse. 40-year-old drug defendants would come to me to sign up for probation, at the tender age of 19... it was weird, because it was the first time grown adults treated me as an authority figure! After graduation, I was off to transfer to Rhode Island College in Providence, starting in 1995. I remember the computer labs, where we had this new fangled service called "e-mail"... the internet web came to school a year or so later! RIC was kind of cool, but it was evident that what I learned in micro therapy at CCRI was much more valuable than this macro junk they were pushing at RIC. Working 40+ hours a week, and getting married somewhere in there, I pushed to finish my senior year in 1999, interning at the coveted placement, the Rhode Island Training School for Youth... i.e., the kid-jail (don't tell DCYF I said that). My unit worked primarily with teenagers who were sexual offenders, which almost always meant they were previously victims of the same crimes. Sad how that works, huh? I also did some gang work, as many residents were southeast asian. That was a super experience, barring its awful ending. Even though for years I had been a milieu therapist working with adolescents with behavior disorders, already in the workforce, RIC's School of Social Work said I wouldn't make a good social worker, and they were kicking me out, a couple of weeks before graduation. How do you like that? Thanks jerks! The college president told my attorney that I was "trouble". So after a farce of a legal dispute, I picked up the pieces and did another year as a Psycology major instead... with most of my work from CCRI helping in that quest, as opposed to the work accomplished at the School of Social Work at RIC. In 2000 I graduated from RIC with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology. With my newborn son Ricky, my wife Cheryl, and my mother looking on, I accepted my degree from the college president, and told him on stage, "I am not trouble." Workplace I earned my first dime as a paperboy for the Pawtuxet Valley Daily Times in West Warwick, RI. My first day on the job was my 12th birthday, September 26, 1985. Also in town on that day: Hurricane Gloria! Hey thanks alot, world; way to give me a first impression of work, delivering newspapers in a hurricane! After a couple of years on the job, and now in high school, I needed a real job. Plus with Hendricken's tuition, I wanted to help my poor mother with the bill for this not so cheap education. So I got a job in 1988 at Papa Gino's in Warwick, RI... long gone from that location now. I was trained in the grill, and after a year or two, they eventually trusted me with pizzas. Here I learned the great art of tossing the dough in the air... chicks dig that you know! After two years, believe it or not, the manager of the local d'Angelo's was courting me to work for her instead. So now at 17 in 1990, I was taking orders in Arctic. Actually, I worked with some great folks there, and I like to still stay in touch with some. We had a great time at d'Angelo's. One girl who I didn't get along with too much was Cheryl Grenon. We hated one another for a year or so... and what do you know, we eventually started dating and got married! Although we still grumble at one another for old time's sake. I worked at other locations too, like Warwick, Coventry, North Kingston, and Providence. Did that for a good six years or so. In 1994 I went to put my schooling to use, driving a van and working at a day care for the Kent County YMCA. Well, that was a blast, not. In the summer of 1995 at age 21, I fulfilled a childhood dream and worked on the Medicine Bow Staff at Yawgoog Scout Reservation, where I earned enough cash to buy an engagement ring, and stop our routine break-ups for good! After working in Olneyville d'Angelo's with no other job prospect in sight, I got called on an old resume I sent out to work at the Blackstone Adolescent Counseling Center for Community Counseling Center in Pawtucket. Here, I worked on an awesome team of clinical professionals working with adolescents with behavioral and emotional disorders as a Milieu Therapist from 1996-2001. The pay was good, I was using my degree, and I mostly worked third shift where I watched alot of TV and tried (often successfully) to remain awake! That was an amazing experience, and I grew alot there. But after five years, it was getting old. As a teenager, I wanted to work for the Boy Scouts of America, an organization that molded my childhood. But by now, I knew that it was all business, money, and politics; wearing a suit, and having no interactions with youth as a volunteer does. I had discounted this career in college. But I started to renew this line of thinking. It was my wife Cheryl that encouraged me. I was used to making a direct impact on a small number of Scouts as a volunteer. She said that as a professional, I would make an indirect impact on hundreds of Scouts. I started as a district executive in Narragansett Council in Providence in 2001, serving the greater Woonsocket area. My assignment also included being camp director at Cub World, which was by far the best part of the job and the best experience of my life. I ran a staff of 30 and had 1000 campers in a summer, while managing its $100K budget and eliminating its $50K operating deficit. Words cannot express the love I have for the camp and my staff. The relationships I made at camp in those three years were priceless, and I will always remember Cub World very, very fondly. I was also the advisor to the Catholic Committee for the dioceses of Providence and Fall River, as well as the Special needs Scouting Committee. In 2005, I accepted a promotion to Senior District Executive in Connecticut Rivers Council in East Hartford, serving 2500 Scouts in southeastern Connecticut, and advising the advancement and Norwich Diocese Catholic Committees as well. So far, so good!
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